A Straight Girl Wanders Into a Lesbian Mixer - Ch. 11
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@Kaarme Yeah it depends on the exact nature of ones sexuality. Just being bland bi will be no different from being gay or straight as far as anyone cares. Though a straight person can usually get a 3some out of it with a Bi partner. Two straight people would be unable to agree on a 3rd after all. That or you start getting boring rules involved which always killed the fun for me.
Some people however have preferences that don't match or intersect. This means they can't find someone they can get everything from. If they are the type who needs both to be happy then a monogomous relationship is likely going to be hard for them no matter what.
1v1 relationships can be odd for people in general. Some just like boobs and butts. If they have a girl with boobs but no butt or vice versa they will be starved for butt. Many however are no more likely to wander in their desires than a "normal" person. A bisexual is no more likely to cheat than anyone else.
If the matter is insecurity based however you have bigger problems. A gay/straight person dating a bisexual person needs to understand that they should not worry that the partner wants something else. In relationships you should simply talk to each other and if things don't work out part peacefully. Not satisfying someones needs is not an attack on you.
Some people however have preferences that don't match or intersect. This means they can't find someone they can get everything from. If they are the type who needs both to be happy then a monogomous relationship is likely going to be hard for them no matter what.
1v1 relationships can be odd for people in general. Some just like boobs and butts. If they have a girl with boobs but no butt or vice versa they will be starved for butt. Many however are no more likely to wander in their desires than a "normal" person. A bisexual is no more likely to cheat than anyone else.
If the matter is insecurity based however you have bigger problems. A gay/straight person dating a bisexual person needs to understand that they should not worry that the partner wants something else. In relationships you should simply talk to each other and if things don't work out part peacefully. Not satisfying someones needs is not an attack on you.
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@Merilirem Yeah, a bisexual is no more likely to cheat in a longer relationship, it's all up to an individual's personality. However, a bisexual might at some point want a family the most naturalistic way. Depending on a country, it might even be impossible to have a homosexual family with children, and in most countries it would be harder than the old fashioned hetero family. So, a bisexual could want to marry a man and have children, after all, that's an option for a bi, unlike for a lesbian. Well, of course in the past many a lesbian was forced into a marriage with a man and had to suffer through hetero sex repeatedly to become pregnant (and likewise a gay man would marry a woman), but fortunately these days in civilised countries that's not the case anymore.
@Kaarme True wanting kids or not is something that needs to be discussed rather early in a relationship. Along with how and other such details. This falls more under thing unrelated to sexual orientation and all that really changes is what is important in such a conversation and what barriers would need to be overcome.
I wouldn't say this is anything worth noting however as proper communication is a vital part of any social construct. Friends, loves, family etc it does not matter. The location is obviously an extra variable but this still becomes a matter of compatibility without sexual orientation truly mattering. If you wish to be together despite laws then you must simply adjust to accommodate those laws. Moving or getting them changed work best but if not feasible it is just a matter of not being compatible.
Point is there really are to many details like this to discuss for it to make a dent in the overall picture of straight vs gay vs bi vs etc relationships. There will be a million different things that need to be dealt with or they sour the whole thing. Thats why being on the same page is so important and the differences between partners like this are more or less negligible. Not something you need to concern yourself with unless it is specifically important to you in which case it would always be a point of discussion.
EDIT :Also there is always an option. Hetero relationships are just an easier option logistically. Though it becomes a game of weighting love and the person against those difficulties. The value of a good match would generally be more than overcoming regular issues however. It just depends on the values being used which are highly subjective and open to lots of variables.
I wouldn't say this is anything worth noting however as proper communication is a vital part of any social construct. Friends, loves, family etc it does not matter. The location is obviously an extra variable but this still becomes a matter of compatibility without sexual orientation truly mattering. If you wish to be together despite laws then you must simply adjust to accommodate those laws. Moving or getting them changed work best but if not feasible it is just a matter of not being compatible.
Point is there really are to many details like this to discuss for it to make a dent in the overall picture of straight vs gay vs bi vs etc relationships. There will be a million different things that need to be dealt with or they sour the whole thing. Thats why being on the same page is so important and the differences between partners like this are more or less negligible. Not something you need to concern yourself with unless it is specifically important to you in which case it would always be a point of discussion.
EDIT :Also there is always an option. Hetero relationships are just an easier option logistically. Though it becomes a game of weighting love and the person against those difficulties. The value of a good match would generally be more than overcoming regular issues however. It just depends on the values being used which are highly subjective and open to lots of variables.
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